Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Longing and being more flirty...
I miss my hunny this week. He is off on a much needed vaycay with his kids. He takes them away every year for a week or two up North. I think it's awesome, he is an amazing dad and has awesome kids. But I can't help but feel a little sad that he is gone.
He said he feels it too. Even though he really isn't all that far away - lol. He could even come pick me up if I was able to stay over a night! But... I guess it's that feeling of emptiness we are feeling. Cause we belong together and when the "other half" is missing you can actually feel it.
Even though we both love to have our space and time apart - it seems this year the longing feels stronger. He noticed it too. Strange I think. We have become really close this past year - much more then in the past. And our bond has gotten much stronger! This is a very warm, (and dare I say) - comforting feeling!
So, I have been emailing with a newer guy this week. He seems nice enough to email. Have not seen a face picture of him yet - but his body was "ok" looking. I'm almost afraid to ask for a face picture! I bet ya $20.00 bucks he will be ass ugly!
My hunny would like me to be a bit more "flirty" with him. If he asks a sexy question, try and answer with a sexy/flirty reply.
Honest to the Goddess - I am AWFUL at flirting! I don't have a flirty bone in my body to save my life.. lol. I never had to flirt. Was with my ex from 17 - 32, I really never "dated" grown up style, so I really do not know how it works. It's pretty sad, but thanks to my super flirty bf - I am learning!
I guess it's getting easier to do, talking to guys and acting flirty/sexy. At least in email! I would never be able to pull it off in real life.
Anyways, the guy is nice - but a bit young. He is 27. I'm like 15 years older then him. But he has told me that he thinks older women are hot and he likes older gals. So I guess it's ok. He is single, is not a jerk and seems "normal" and friendly.
Who knows - if his face picture looks good he might just be doable! And I can actually step off my snot box and have some fun.
That would be amazing if I ever ventured out of my shell and did a threesome!..lol.
And then... If I actually wrote about it!!
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Yes, writing about it would be good!
July 28, 2009 7:20 PMHope you survive your week without your man!
Hub. - yeah, I will survive, but I miss him!
July 28, 2009 7:38 PMIt would be hot writing about it! Maybe... Just maybe... ; )
Just think how good it will be when you hook back up!
July 28, 2009 8:23 PMMsBitchtits - I know it! Total hot, hard sex! WoooHooo!
July 28, 2009 8:46 PMLove your blog. Forty isn't too late to be sexy. Neither is 50.
July 29, 2009 12:31 PMI'm a terrible flirt - in person - too. Much better at being flirty in writing I think! :)
July 29, 2009 4:42 PMTallgrass - Thank you!
July 29, 2009 4:51 PMWife - me too! I am more relaxed and all that... lol
Aw. My honey is out of town too, so I know I will not be sleeping. Reuniting will make it worth it!! It is way easier for me to follow someone else's lead in flirting. If a man is a great flirt, then I am able to flirt back. If not, it just kind of goes dead. I use Mmmmmm and :) a lot. lol! I say blame it on the guy. ;p Remember, you don't have to fuck anyone unless and until YOU want to!!
July 29, 2009 9:36 PMIf you have the right spirit, things get better after 40 .. they did for us. And then things took an interesting turn, unexpected to both my wife and myself, involving the two of us and another women. I've just started blogging about the new adventures.
July 29, 2009 11:02 PMSexy - Lol... flirting is definitely not my thing! I think it's because I am so shy. And getting better I think though, email wise anyways!
July 30, 2009 6:44 AMBen - Sounds like you guys are on a great adventure!
I have, in the past, been accused of being a flirt. I'm
July 30, 2009 7:25 PMnot sure why.
My only advice is to take whatever they say and reply 'I got yer'. (insert noun) 'right here'. Then maybe lick your lips and rub your nipple.
It's not worked once for me yet, but hope springs eternal!
Roaring - lol.. My bf is super flirty. I don't mind - as long as I don't feel threatened. Then I'm pissy about it!
July 30, 2009 8:13 PMI can relate - I don't really know how to flirt either! Anyway, have fun with it. :-)
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