The Meeting...

Saturday, September 5, 2009

The Meeting...

Where do we begin? First of all, I gotta say - I can't believe that I actually did it! And second...No, I'm not talking about sex...lol

I'm talking about my bf and I actually meeting M last night. Remember my post about us meeting M next Thursday? Yeah, well.. We won't be. I guess it's best to start from the beginning so keep in mind it will probably be a somewhat long post.

My bf texted me around lunch time asking if we wanted to meet M last night. I was like, WHAT? He wants to meet tonight?

::cue the instant anxiety attack::

Bf texts back, "yup. he would like to meet up for a coffee or something before he goes to his friends party." There was a tad amount of confusion as to whether or not he wanted to meet up for drinks and screwing or just drinks. Turns out that it was just drinks. ::phew::
I was ok with that so I told my bf sure, but those two could decide on a place and time and let me know.
I was kinda having anxiety attacks for the remainder 3 hours after lunch, but at the same time I was excited and also relieved to know he didn't wanna meet for fucking! lol.

We were going on our first threesome date!

I got home a bit after 4pm and flew into the shower and took extra special care shaving the bits and everything and deep conditioning hair and all that.
I wanted to be a bit dressy, but a lot casual so I put on a pair of tight fitting capri jeans and a black spaghetti strap tank top. And some simple flip flops.
Threw some clear polish on my nails and some summer color on my toes, did my makeup and straightened my hair.
Oh.....and I also was wearing a pair of new black G strings and a black push up bra for added cleavage....You know - just in case.... : )

My bf kept telling me how great I looked. He is such a cutie... trying to get me all relaxed and confident...

We went to a restaurant off the highway and sat in the bar area to wait for M.

Was only a few minutes we waited and he showed up. He wasn't *bad* looking. He actually kinda reminded me of an old friend I use to know with his height (6'2) and his sorta monkey like walk. lol. Average body for his height I guess you could say, and not hard to look at. Just a plain old ordinary guy I guess.


The internal dialog I carried on with myself was kinda funny if you got a listen in my head. lol.

"He is doo-able" I thought to myself. "I can do this... Sure he ain't a looker - but he does have a decent looking dick" (I knew what that looked like from pictures) so I thought, "ok... if I can relax I can do this again next Thursday...ok, yeah... this is ok.. I'm getting a bit more relaxed..."

On and on my brain went..

All the while my bf and he were getting along great! My bf is such an amazing social person. He can carry an entire conversation and not look one bit nervous. That is amazing to me. I am so freaking shy it can be crippling! lol

The boys ordered some beers and I got a girlie drink - don't remember what it was, but it was blue! We all sat around and talked for about an hour and half in total I think. I was pretty shy but was getting a bit better and smiling, laughing and just generally enjoying the conversation.

My bf said I was *awesome* BTW... : )

It was probably about a 20 minutes to half hour into our meeting that I noticed it. I had to do a double take - just to be sure...


He had a fucking wedding ring on his finger!

That sneaky son of a bee. I tried to give my bf *eye signals* of where to place his eyes, lol... but it wasn't working. And I am really surprised that my bf did not notice it himself.
I guess it's a built in thing for us women that we have - look at the ring finger...lol

I can't believe he was so nervous or something that he FORGOT to take it off!

It was at that point that I knew I would not be screwing M. I mean - if his wife was aware I would have. But he told me he was NOT married.

It was around the same time that he finally realized that he left his ring on and put his hands under the table and then when his hands appeared again, the ring was off. I actually saw him put his hand in his left pocket to put it there. Well, that was that. No threesome with M.

We sat around and carried on conversation for a bit. It was still a good time and by then we were on our second round of drinks. My bf did notice that he was really fidgety. And I agree, he was. Must been cause he was thinking about CHEATING ON HIS WIFE!!!

We were sitting at a small round table, with my bf in front of me and M to my left. What I noticed also was that he kept pressing his right leg into mine. It was kinda cool, but at the same time a tad funny. I don't know why. lol

IF M had not been married I would have actually been brave and put my hand on his leg. Maybe a quick rub up his thigh or a couple rubs with my feet. Just to freak him out a bit. And I know my bf would have loved it if I had done that!

But, I was not even gonna bother. He was married. I do not screw married men. Even if I wanted to I would have to say no because there is another person attached to him that thinks he is a wonderful man and thinks that she can trust him and all that.

We parted ways after about an hour and half and a few minutes after M texted my bf to say "thanks and that I was really sexy." I sent M a quick text just to say "hey - had a great time.. was sad that you forgot to take your wedding ring off though." I just wanted him to know that I had indeed noticed. lol. Have not heard a thing back. Didn't think I would have either. lol.

My bf and I had a great night after that - but that will be another post for later today - I'm tired of writing... lol.

It was an awesome, amazing incredible night though!