Sunday, December 6, 2009
Hot guys are hard to find.
Finally...a post unrelated to Monday OR HNT!
We got some snow here last night. Looked really pretty this morning when I got up. although, this morning at around 7am I was woken up by one of the maintenance dudes shoveling the sidewalk.
My bedroom faces the street and I am on the first floor so he was right outside my window! Thank Goddess for shades, or he could have looked right in. That would have been odd for sure!
I finally went to the adult site to check my email today. There were three waiting. One from a bald, overweight, 53 year old... One from a guy who said he was married BUT his wife is ok with it, ( no picture though) and one from a guy that says he was single that had all his gf's/wife's info on his profile as well.
That one was a bit confusing... So I replied to two. The fat, bald one I deleted.
We are getting deeper into the winter and my SAD is at full force. It's really getting hard to even get off the couch to eat these days. All I wanna do is sleep. And my sex life is next to nothing it seems. Either we are not alone, or when we are it's too short on time, Or I am just not in the mood.
When we do actually do the deed it's great and my brain thinks, "why the hell do I wait so long..."
But then, life, work, stress, and all that set in and before we know it - it's been three weeks or so again.
Thank Goddess our "lack of sex" does not indicate a "lack of love" with us. It gets better in the spring & summer...
So... I was looking at the Hanes catalogs that I get every now and again and I noticed....
Why can I not find anyone like this at those adult sites? I know guys like this exist in real life! I have seen them. And even spoken to some at work and what not... And my bf is a hottie like this as well.
So WHY can I not find anymore of them? I think hot looking men are a dying breed. With all the "love yourself for who you are" things out there - it's affecting men! They all seem to let themselves go... lol
This guy isn't a ten... he's a 9 at best.. But he looks thin and trim. Has a nice smile, seems happy (his eye reflection) and generally comfortable with himself.
He's not above average by any means.. Just regular. That's the kind of guy I like. I just can't seem to find any at those sites. lol.
Maybe the two at the site will be decent. Who knows. Will be interesting to see.
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Hi Sexy,
December 7, 2009 4:04 AMYour comment about guys letting themselves go these days struck a chord with me. I must admit that that is true.
2 months back I woke up one day, took a look in the mirror and suddenly realized that I've not taken very good care of myself in the last few years. WTF!!! No wonder my sex life suffered. "I'm not fat, I'm just not trim" was the excuse I'd used. Its too easy to let yourself go and start making excuses for yourself.
Made the decision to change that very day. Went on a diet, started going to the gym again, even went to the dermatologist.
I must say, 2 months on and 20 pounds lighter, I do feel a lot better and happier about myself. I hope more people realize how much better their 'well being' would be if they paid more attention to themselves.
I hope you find your hot guys. If not, just slap those around you that have potential and get them to start loving themselves again.
-J
Gog that is so true. We call it the "heterosexual slob". Most completely heterosexual men get the corporate gut at 30 yrs old. It's all down hill from there. Will we are killing ourselves on the treadmill, they are devouing the hour'dervs at parties and business meetings. Hence, the metrosexuals and submale are locked down and married by 35, and the gay dudes are gay, so the ones that are left are the "heterosexual slos" who hide their gut with a suite jacket. The interesting thing is that typically they have no shame about it. ---OK that is my vent for the day.lol. Thanks for keeping it real. BCR from smoothfemdom.blogspot.com
December 7, 2009 3:46 PMAnonymous - Thanks! I'm glad that you agree. lol. It's the whole *like yourself for who you are generation* that really gets people going! I think that just teaches people to be lazy, be unhealthy, eat unhealthy and lay the blame somewhere else.
December 7, 2009 6:10 PMIf you want to look GOOD then you gotta work at it. It does not come natural for everyone. But ya cant be eating 6000 calories a day, not exercise and then say, "I'm fat... and that is ok.." lol.
BCR - Soooo true! Women gotta work harder after 40 and it's just not right!
And you are right - they have no shame because of the *love yourself for who you are* generation!
Oh - I think they are out there. Just gotta look in the right places maybe?
December 10, 2009 9:06 PMRed- Ive been looking. They are all either gay or married. lol
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