Finally...a post unrelated to Monday OR HNT!
We got some snow here last night. Looked really pretty this morning when I got up. although, this morning at around 7am I was woken up by one of the maintenance dudes shoveling the sidewalk.
My bedroom faces the street and I am on the first floor so he was right outside my window! Thank Goddess for shades, or he could have looked right in. That would have been odd for sure!
I finally went to the adult site to check my email today. There were three waiting. One from a bald, overweight, 53 year old... One from a guy who said he was married BUT his wife is ok with it, ( no picture though) and one from a guy that says he was single that had all his gf's/wife's info on his profile as well.
That one was a bit confusing... So I replied to two. The fat, bald one I deleted.
We are getting deeper into the winter and my SAD is at full force. It's really getting hard to even get off the couch to eat these days. All I wanna do is sleep. And my sex life is next to nothing it seems. Either we are not alone, or when we are it's too short on time, Or I am just not in the mood.
When we do actually do the deed it's great and my brain thinks, "why the hell do I wait so long..."
But then, life, work, stress, and all that set in and before we know it - it's been three weeks or so again.
Thank Goddess our "lack of sex" does not indicate a "lack of love" with us. It gets better in the spring & summer...
So... I was looking at the Hanes catalogs that I get every now and again and I noticed....

This guy is fucking hot!Why can I not find anyone like this at those swinger sites? I know guys like this exist in real life! I have seen them. And even spoken to some at work and what not... And my bf is a hottie like this as well.
So WHY can I not find anymore of them? I think hot looking men are a dying breed. With all the "love yourself for who you are" things out there - it's affecting men! They all seem to let themselves go... lol
This guy isn't a ten... he's a 9 at best.. But he looks thin and trim. Has a nice smile, seems happy (his eye reflection) and generally comfortable with himself.
He's not *above average* by any means.. Just regular. That's the kind of guy I like. I just can't seem to find any at those sites. lol.
Maybe the two at the site will be decent. Who knows. Will be interesting to see.