Comments on Sexy At Forty: I have survived!

Hubman - It seems like it will be really hot! Glad...

2009-09-01T17:36:04.119-04:00

Hubman - It seems like it will be really hot! Glad to know that you guys still get nervous too!

Jill - I never thought about it that way! You are right. It is *new* everytime you are with someone new!

Amy - Great advice! I love the way you put it too! And I forgot that anxiety can kill it for men easier then us women. Thanks!

Dear Sexy, You'll love it. Dim the lights, relax...

2009-09-01T11:28:05.348-04:00

Dear Sexy,

You'll love it.

Dim the lights, relax.
Dance a little.
Hug a lot.
Kiss a little.
Touch a little.
Feel a little.
Kiss more.
Touch more.
Feel more.
Remove clothes slowly.
Don't let him take you before you're wet.

Actually it is easier for gals - anxiety can and do kill erections for men. So help them out a bit.

Most importantly - if you feel uncomfortable - STOP.

-Amy

I think most people feel some anxiety mixed in wit...

2009-09-01T08:02:34.709-04:00

I think most people feel some anxiety mixed in with the eagerness! It's the 'first time' every time you're with someone new. Try to relax a little and just enjoy the experience, no matter what happens. :)

Fondly,
Jill

First time jitters? How about damn-near first time...

2009-09-01T06:59:31.708-04:00

First time jitters? How about damn-near first time failure to launch the first time Veronica and I swapped with another couple! I'd fully expect you to have some butterflies- we still do, even after a year of swinging.

Whether with this guy or someone else, I hope you get to fulfill your fantasy. Veronica says having 2 men at once is HOT! LOL...